By Sumiya Banoo
God’s best creation on the universe is Mother. Mother has all the quality such as caring, sweet, selfless love, patience, forgiveness, kindness, simplicity, perseverance etc.
A mother is the female parent of a child. Mothers are women who inhabit or perform the role of bearing some relation to their children, who may or may not be their biological offspring. Thus, dependent on the context, women can be considered mothers by virtue of having given birth, by raising their child, supplying their ovum for fertilisation, or some combination thereof. Such conditions provide a way of delineating the concept of motherhood, or the state of being a mother.
An adoptive mother is a female who has become the child's parent through the legal process of adoption. A biological mother is the female genetic contributor to the creation of the infant, through sexual intercourse or egg donation. A biological mother may have legal obligations to a child not raised by her, such as an obligation of monetary support. A putative mother is a female whose biological relationship to a child is alleged but has not been established. A stepmother is a female who is married to a child's father and they may form a family unit, but who generally does not have the legal rights and responsibilities of a parent in relation to the child.
Mother’s love is a feeling, something which requires unlimited words to explain because it is as deep as an ocean. After coming into world we find secure our salves in the lap of our mother. Without even speaking she understands what we want. Mother’s love always encourages us in any falls which comes in life. She is only a person who has no demands except our best future. Mother is the most selfless person in this world who starts loving her children even before they come into this world. Nothing could be compared to a mother’s love in this world as it is the purest form of love. Mother is like an angel for her child, who always loves her child and supports him/her. For every child, his mother has a special place in his heart because she is the first person the child sees after his birth. This is the reason why a child and a mother have a special bond between them. But not all people are fortunate enough to have mother love in their life due to many reasons. Those who have their mother with them must love and respect her.
Mother is the greatest gift for a child by God. It is the mother who always loves her children without expecting anything from them in return. It won't be wrong to say that women are an inherently good mother, but they realise the power of mother-love when they become a mother. A mother can do anything to protect her child, and she is the primary support of a child. She not only morally supports the child but also prepares her child to be a better person in life.
A mother plays many roles in her child's life from being her child's first friend to a mentor who always guides him/her, and she dedicatedly plays all these roles without complaining or hesitating. Mothers love is not only about pampering her child but also about letting her child know the moral and cultural values. A good upbringing makes the better future of a person and a mother does an excellent job to give the best future for her child. She converts a house into a home; she works as a superwoman because to keep managing household works and to fulfill all family members’ requirement on time is no easy task at all. After birth, a child finds his mom as the first friend who plays with him along with extra care and nourishment. She interacts with her child as a friend and keeps watching all her child’s activities. A mother never feels tired while playing with her child and always fulfils all his demands without thinking of her. A mother is like an angel for her child.
Motherhood is the noblest of callings and a privilege to be entrusted with a tiny human life. Motherly love is unconditional and is the foundation of a child’s growth. This kind of love helps foster self-confidence and has a long-lasting impact on developing their minds and shaping their conscience. The role of the mother is to watch, teach, guide, and help in the growth and development of a child. There is an unfathomable, deep, trusting love that connects mother and child.
When a child born; it is the mother who easily understands the feelings or requirements of her child. She spends every second around her child for fulfilling his all needs. Since childhood our mother keeps telling us what is wrong and what is right in manner to build us as a good human being and also encourage us to do good things in life. She loves and cares us without any personal greed. Mother always understood our problems even if we are not sharing with her. She boosts the confidence in us to overcome the problem. She always stands with us during happiness or sadness. Mothers work round the clock without any complaints to keep us happy. She always first thinks about her family members without fulfilling her own desires.
The relation between a mother and a child must be like that of a best friend. Before making any best friend we need to be our mother's best friend as mother (mummy) is our supporter, guides us which path is best for us. We must share our problems, secrets, feelings, anything else with our mother. Mother is always a secret keeper, good listener and most importantly she loves her child like nobody else can do. A friend or a best friend may b a deceiver or a rumour spreading or may gossip with other friends and make jokes on us but only a mother is there who always think of her child and never did anything which makes her child feel low.
Without any expectation, a mother keeps on working for the betterment of her child. She plays all roles including mom like a mentor, a teacher, a friend, a caretaker. She loves her child more than any other thing in this world but sometimes she becomes little strict towards her child for making him capable to fight with different circumstances comes in life. Mother gives us that power with which we become able to accept them and get success.
The article is written by Sumiya Banoo BSc Student from Govt Degree College Bhaderwah.
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~~~ LOVE YOUR PARENTS UNCONDITIONALLY~~~